Each one of us are unique. We all have different perceptions on what makes us feel our best self, it could be anything but we all have one common goal, how to achieve our best self. Here are some of the things i’ve learned. I am also trying my best to work on it every single day. I believe that emotional connection to oneself is very important above anything else. It is a driving force girl. You could be the most intellectual , most creative and/or the richest person in the planet but if you are emotionally disconnected to your self, we feel emptiness and unsatisfied.
1. Self Acceptance – Most of us battle with self judgement. Why do we do this ? I guess it’s human nature but we really need to stop judging ourselves because not accepting ourselves is really the root cause of what stops us to become what we are really meant to be. We need to embrace on what really makes us happy. I’m not saying that if alcohol is what makes you happy, drink as many as you want. No , that’s not what i’m talking about. I’m talking about searching, reflecting and working on our inner happiness, our truth. Also when we learn to accept ourselves we become more accepting of others. We learn to love others without baggage and see vulnerability in a positive light.
2. Free Yourself – It goes hand and hand with self acceptance but i think it deserves it’s own place. Step out and feel your strength. We all have hesitations because we are afraid. We are all trying to fit in, yes i’m guilty of that. We are all trying to keep up with each other with our looks, our houses, our jobs, on what we have achieved or could have achieved in our stage of life. It is relentless. It poisons our minds and crushes our emotions. As someone that is on this website and social media platform, i faced it right in front of me everyday. I can’t keep up with all these amazingness all over, i am not even a quarter of who they are and what they have achieved. But the more i focus on that negativity, the more i feel stuck. They said negativity and self doubt is the new drugs, it is. Say No. Set yourself free and take action on whatever that is.
3. Be Accountable – We can choose on who we become. This is hard because life is full of traps and correct me if wrong there is a lot of blame to go around. We blame everything ! The weather, the surroundings, our spouse, our kids. Omg! Everyone, seriously. Why do we do that?Man up ! Be accountable, be honest to yourself and to others. Forgive yourself and work on it again and again and again. That’s the measure of how responsible you are with your life, it is facing things and owning it up. By doing so, it will help us with in finding a solution and move forward. I swear the blame game is a waste of time.
Outfit details : All jumpsuits, romper, bag and shoes are from Vici , thank you so much Vici for making me feel my best self. Oh la la ! Guys, check them out!
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